Comments on: Abject Terror http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/ Simple Living... Frugality... Gardening... Cooking From Scratch... Knifty Knitter Projects.. And More. Tue, 16 Mar 2010 22:28:28 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Kelley http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11423 Kelley Mon, 26 Oct 2009 03:09:39 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11423 Love you babe. I am always here for you. Remember that. Love you babe. I am always here for you. Remember that.

]]> By: river http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11421 river Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:10:59 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11421 Libby makes sense. Take some time for you. Remember you've been away for a while, slack off on the commitments for a while and just do family and farm. Libby makes sense. Take some time for you. Remember you’ve been away for a while, slack off on the commitments for a while and just do family and farm.

]]> By: KC http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11419 KC Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:03:40 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11419 Huge hugs to you! Take very good care of yourself and get help from wherever you need to get through this. Huge hugs to you! Take very good care of yourself and get help from wherever you need to get through this.

]]> By: agrantham81 http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11418 agrantham81 Fri, 23 Oct 2009 23:22:23 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11418 The bad days are always so much worse, esp when you have had such a nice run of good days. Remember that. A while back that bad day, may well have been close to a normal day and you wouldn't have noticed it as much. Huge Huge Hugs. I know how dreadful it is to get back to those bad days. And I know exactly what you mean when you say you never wanted to be there again. I have had a few issues lately too. And while less than 6 mmonths ago the bad days now would have been good days, now in amongst true good days they are awful and scare me and make me cross that I have made errors in judgement to get me to that feeling again. I hope and pray you find the balance you need. It is not an easy job. I will join you being a nomad in the caravan. That would work well for me too. :-) Take care, and take little steps. The bad days are always so much worse, esp when you have had such a nice run of good days. Remember that. A while back that bad day, may well have been close to a normal day and you wouldn’t have noticed it as much.

Huge Huge Hugs. I know how dreadful it is to get back to those bad days. And I know exactly what you mean when you say you never wanted to be there again. I have had a few issues lately too. And while less than 6 mmonths ago the bad days now would have been good days, now in amongst true good days they are awful and scare me and make me cross that I have made errors in judgement to get me to that feeling again.

I hope and pray you find the balance you need. It is not an easy job.

I will join you being a nomad in the caravan. That would work well for me too. :-) Take care, and take little steps.

]]> By: Kez http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11417 Kez Fri, 23 Oct 2009 10:03:30 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11417 {{HUGE HUGS}} {{HUGE HUGS}}

]]> By: Suzie Cheel http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11416 Suzie Cheel Fri, 23 Oct 2009 06:29:41 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11416 Sending you healing love across the waves, interesting how getting back into gear/home has triggered that for you. Maybe the gypsy idea is not so crazy. Any way sending you healing hugs of love Suzie Sending you healing love across the waves, interesting how getting back into gear/home has triggered that for you.
Maybe the gypsy idea is not so crazy.

Any way sending you healing hugs of love Suzie

]]> By: Lynette http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11415 Lynette Fri, 23 Oct 2009 05:22:25 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11415 Thinking of you loads... wish i was there to make you a cuppa and give you a hug.. ! Thinking of you loads… wish i was there to make you a cuppa and give you a hug.. !

]]> By: Libby http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11413 Libby Fri, 23 Oct 2009 02:28:25 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11413 Sorry to hear you had such a rough time yesterday. I know it's definitely going to take some time getting back to your normal life. Sounds like you dived in too deep and need to take a couple of steps back and gradually ease yourself back into real life. I know that's easier said than done. Try and take a look at your activiites/commitments and JUST DO the ones that you love. Don't feel guilty for saying no, even to your own family. You need to look after YOU first and foremost. If YOU are happy, then your FAMILY will be happy. And that's really all that matters. All those things you didn't participate in while you were away managed okay without you and they can continue to. Hope this helps in some way. Libby Sorry to hear you had such a rough time yesterday. I know it’s definitely going to take some time getting back to your normal life. Sounds like you dived in too deep and need to take a couple of steps back and gradually ease yourself back into real life. I know that’s easier said than done. Try and take a look at your activiites/commitments and JUST DO the ones that you love. Don’t feel guilty for saying no, even to your own family. You need to look after YOU first and foremost. If YOU are happy, then your FAMILY will be happy. And that’s really all that matters. All those things you didn’t participate in while you were away managed okay without you and they can continue to. Hope this helps in some way.

Libby

]]> By: katy http://www.lighteningonline.com/2009/10/23/abject-terror/comment-page-1/#comment-11412 katy Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:17:23 +0000 http://www.lighteningonline.com/?p=2071#comment-11412 Really sorry to hear that :( Are you going to revisit the GP?? Really sorry to hear that :( Are you going to revisit the GP??

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