Where Do You Buy New Shoes?

Women's shoes on display in a shop window, 2005.Image via WikipediaI think this discussion is going to need two parts to it:

1. Children’s Shoes

2. Adult’s Shoes

Children’s Shoes

I think the biggest debate over children’s shoes is getting them fitted properly. Feet that are growing and developing NEED shoes that are well-fitted. Finding the balance between a good fit and leaving enough room to grow can be quite a challenge.

Some people use this as a reason to purchase the more expensive shoes for their children.

We tried taking our first child to several shoe stores when he started wearing shoes. We figured this was the “right” thing to do. I was appalled by the lack of knowledge and proper fitting that the shoe stores seemed to be offering.

I had seen my mother do a better job of fitting shoes. So, we gathered her up and took HER shoe shopping with us. In Kmart.

Personally, I have found Kmart to be a good source of children’s shoes. I particularly like the Grosby brand of shoe that they carry.

Unfortunately (for our hip pocket that is), our 10 year old has long and narrow feet, so we’re going to need to advance to a much more expensive shoe for his main shoe. Most of the “lower price” ranges seem to cater for a more “average” foot.

Still, this method has saved us a few $$ over the years.

Enough about MY opinion. What does Amy D say in The Complete Tightwad Gazette?

“Just out of curiosity, we called a couple of shoe stores to inquire about the training procedure for clerks. The longest training course we found is two hours. A friend of mine, who was a shoe clerk for Sears, says her training lasted 60 seconds”. The Complete Tightwad Gazette pg 371

Sadly, it would seem that along with customer service, well-trained staff may have gone out the window. No longer can we assume that a “specialist” store will provide anything more than selling a single line of product.

Have you had good or bad experiences with shoe store staff and their expertise when it comes to fitting children’s shoes?

Adult Shoes

As adult feet are generally not changing huge amounts in size from year to year, another factor comes into play. That of “cost per wear”.

Cost per wear is simply the cost of the shoes divided by how many times you wear them.

In some cases, higher quality will end up giving you a lower “cost per wear”. Of course, that is not ALWAYS the case.

There are other factors that come into play with shoes as well. I recently spent nearly $200 on a pair of netball shoes (and gel inserts). This is the MOST EXPENSIVE pair of shoes I have EVER bought. BUT, I had to weigh up the cost of the shoes against the cost of something like knee surgery if I don’t have the cushioning in the soles. And of course the HEALTH BENEFITS of being able to exercise comfortably.

In general though, I’m not a “spend big money on shoes” type person. The only shoes I really seem to ever wear out are my sneakers.

A Few Links You Might Find Helpful

If The Shoe Fits

How To Make Sure High Heels Fit Correctly

What’s Your Correct Shoe Size

Shoe Fitting For an Infant

Selecting the Correct Shoes

Over to You

What sort of factors come into play when you go shoe shopping?

Are you brand loyal? Do you prefer specialist shoe stores to the larger department style stores?

Do you have any strategies for saving money on shoes?

What kinds of experiences have you had with getting children’s shoes fitted?

Feel free to add any other comments or suggestions to the discussion.

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A Lovely Day

Wanna hear about my day? You’re all nodding right? RIGHT???? Wink

Last night I actually slept through the night. No nightmares (well, nothing that woke me up anyway). AND I slept in this morning.

A good night’s sleep is a good start to a great day.

Then this morning I make the decision I’m going to have a totally self indulgent day. Go me!!! Good decision.

Some blogging over cuppa and breakfast.

Then onto a lovely soak in our huge tub. Accompanied by a cup of tea, half a packet of Tim Tams (Double Coated ones at that!!!) and one of my favourite magazines “Australian Natural Health”.

Few more online bits and pieces.

Lunch with my lovely husband (yes, he turned up. He always does eventually).

Did some relaxation and meditation exercises from my “On the Go Meditations” CD. Listened for the first time to the track “Your Perfect Day” which was fabulous and positive and is something I’m going to try and listen to more often.

Changed the sheets on our bed to BRAND NEW, soft and snuggly, flannelette sheets. Did that so I can look forward to hopping in to bed tonight. I LOVE fresh sheets but even better are NEW sheets and even better still is that first night in flannelette sheets after having cotton over the warmer months.

Ate the most delicious Pink Lady Apple.

Did the Gratitude Dance for:

  • new sheets
  • healthy food
  • my wonderful family
  • my fabulous friends both online and off
  • abundance

Walked down to the bus stop to meet the kids. They have to cross the road this term and Trailer Boy is a bit young to do that by himself. Had a lovely conversation on the way back to the house including Trailer Boy pointing out all the wheel tracks in our driveway.

Out to netball training. I’m still unfit!!!! Played Goal Defense for a bit this week. Had to remember NOT to stop at the goal ring. LOL. Really enjoyed myself and starting to feel like the “old me” more than I have for a long time. I’m hoping that’s the old me coming back and a result of reducing the medications and not just a temporary thing.

Just helped Trailer Boy get into his pj’s and he pointed out “pants tracks” on his skin. LOL. A mark his jocks have left.

Now I’m looking forward to snuggling down in my NEW sheets. Smile

I think I should have a “me day” more often.

LOVE the suggestions for a “ME” weekend!!!!! Smile

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Today It’s All About ME

That’s right, I’m having a ME day.

I have one at camp, one at school, one at kindy (preschool) and one who knows where (um…that’s Farmboy in case anyone is worried that I’ve lost a child somewhere along the way Wink).

Usually Friday is my “guilt free” day. Not that any day should *really* be a “feel guilty” day. But Friday’s is kind of a day where I give myself permission to NOT get anything productive done.

Given I’m currently child-free on a Thursday, I can’t help but wonder if I should make Thursday my “day off”.

Although, Fridays I tend to not feel like doing anything anyway.

SO, today I am declaring a “ME” day.

What I do next week will remain to be seen.

I’m not going to do ANYTHING today unless I WANT to.

I can do housework…if I WANT to.

I can blog…if I WANT to.

I can browse online….if I WANT to.

Right now I’m heading for a long soak in the tub.

Might be back later……

Then again, I might not. Smile

And I’m using Zemanta for the first time and it came up with this article suggestion. No idea if it’s good or not. I’m adding it because I WANT to. Smile

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My First School Camp

My eldest heads off on his first school camp this morning. Cry

He’s excited.

Me?

Not so much.

In fact, I’ve been giving him LOTS of cuddles this past week.

I’ve got the “what if something happens and I never see him again” jitters.

Cos NO-ONE can look after MY child like I can!!!!

Right???

*sniff*

It’s okay. The staff going are FABULOUS. I’m sure he’ll be fine. But I just have to have my little “mummy moment” here. Smile

He’ll be back in 54 hours and 23 minutes (give or take)…..


In other news:

I wrote a post called Opening Rain on Aussie Bloggers this week. Pleeeeaaaasssseee take a minute to pop over there and leave me some comment love. Cos you know how I love me some comment love. And it’s a much more uplifting post than the drivel you’ve been putting up with here for the past few days.
We could sure do with some “opening rain” around here. Both the wet kind of the “fresh start” kind. Wink

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Personal Training - Hard Slog

fitness step

* image courtesy of www.rbkdirect.co.uk

I’ve been finding exercise is getting more and more pleasurable as my fitness levels improve.

So I wasn’t all that impressed this week to find my personal training session a very hard slog.

Perhaps I shouldn’t have been really. After all:

a) I didn’t sleep well the night before

b) The emotional drain over the weekend took a LOT out of me both physically and emotionally.

c) It was my first day on a reduced dosage of my anti-depressant medication

d) It was “weigh and measure” week (okay, that probably had NOTHING to do with it but I had to throw it in there anyway Wink ).

Weigh and Measure

I think this went okay. Not much happening on the weight loss front but that was about what I was expecting. Some improvements in measurements though. Nothing earth-shattering but progress in the right direction.

Positives

  • Most of the time I’m enjoying exercise which is a relief after the hard slog I’ve found it in the past few months. I generally look forward to it (especially my personal training sessions).
  • I’m slowly improving my eating habits again and I’m hoping that will have a gradual snowball effect (improved health leads to improved fitness and improved fitness leads to my body craving healthier foods and on it goes).
  • Not counting the ups and downs of the depression, I am feeling better within myself.
  • The massage at the end of my session today was REALLY good. Smile
  • My trainer had planned some flexibility exercises as part of our session. Which made it less “full on”. Have I mentioned how amazing she is yet????

Not so Positives

I didn’t get quite the same high after my session today. I think my body is kind of quivering on it’s last legs right now. I was a bit teary when I got home. I don’t think that had anything to do with the session. Just that I’m disappointed that my body is struggling.

It is really really hard to put up with feeling bad. Feeling bad is BAD. I WANT to feel good!!! (*stomps her feet like a 2-year old*)

What’s Happening on the Drug Side of Things?

Monday was my first day of cutting back my medication dosage. Who knows what kind of a rollercoaster ride we’re in for in the next few months? I’m supposed to give it around a month on this dose before reducing again. Personally, I’d like to reduce it faster and get it over and done with. But they don’t think that’s a good idea. So for now I’m trying to be good and listen to what they say.

I’m trying to approach this with a “expect the best but accept the worst” type attitude. Which is REALLY hard.

My biggest fear? Losing my fitness AGAIN. I can cope with not making too much progress over the coming months (I think). But going backwards would be somewhat devastating.

I’m toying with the idea of cutting out sugar. I’ve heard that this can help with improving depression symptoms. Not sure if I have the willpower to follow through on it right now. Is it really fair to deprive myself of chocolate through these dark days?????

For now I’m trying to cut BACK rather than cut it out. But I have heard that it’s addictive so cutting it out makes more sense. Undecided

Whatever happens over the coming weeks, I hope you’ll stick with me. I’m hoping it will be “business as usual” around here. Time will tell.

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